It happens time after time.
You start the day with such good intentions. There’s plenty to do and you're all set to do it. But people want things, ideas pop up, something grabs your attention...
So you react.
And so another day passes doing things you didn't plan to do, scratching the latest itches that appear in your life. And what’s really frustrating is that you keep doing the same thing.
What if there was a way to make sure you get the right things done? What if you could consistently stay focused and do what you had actually planned to do?
There is, and you can.
It's natural to react to the latest and loudest demands on your time.
But that doesn't mean you should.
Reacting is what prevents you from doing what you planned to do. And, before you know it, those incomplete planned tasks turn into stress causing crises.
course some things genuinely do need to be dealt with straight away.
Whether it’s an angry client or a flooded kitchen, you‘ll know it when
But most things don't deserve your immediate attention.
So why do we do keep doing this?
It’s simply human nature. We tend to react to whatever demands our attention, even if it's not in our best interests to do so.
We let the marketing fool us, giving things more importance and urgency than is necessary. Scan down the messages in your inbox and you'll 'feel' what I mean.
Reacting is totally understandable. It’s also hugely frustrating.
What to do?
The trick is to know the difference between real and apparent emergencies.
People who know the secret of time management make far fewer knee jerk reactions to demands, requests and ideas. They respond by giving things the attention they really deserve at the most appropriate time.
In short, they don't cherry pick random things to do -- they get planned things done
The secret to time management is to make it your default setting to create a gap between input (whatever you decide to do) and output (when you do it).
Whether those decisions are made consciously or not, the result is the same: They react less and plan more, which partly explains why they are so good at doing what really matters.
But planning isn’t doing.
You’ll still get sidetracked unless you practice one essential habit...
Do what’s on your to do list for any given day.
The only things you do that aren’t are those genuine 'emergencies'. Everything else that come your way today? Put it off. Do it later, do it tomorrow, or don’t even do it at all.
Just finish today’s list first.
If you find yourself disappearing down a rabbit hole marked ‘Stuff I Haven't Planned To Do’, pull yourself back up out and get back to what you committed yourself to today.
After you’ve done what you planned is the time to reward yourself with whatever you want to do.
Keep your list close, check it throughout the day and do it until it's all done.
That is the secret of time management. It’s simple and effective, but most people just don’t apply it.
Be one of the few who do.